Showing posts with label Thought. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Thought. Show all posts

未来。飞翔

未来,

今天,突然想到了这个课题,

所以决定将它写下来。

又是我长篇大论的时候了。敬请见谅。哈哈!





未来,相信大家都很犹豫吧!

整天在看到别人成功时想:“我的未来天空在哪里?”

看似简单的问题,

但这显示出那个人对于未来的彷徨,无助。



未来,未来是充满机会的,

机会?其实就距离我们不远,


就好像天空,那么近,


只要我们抬头就能看到天空,看到机会。





既然那么多机会,


那为何我们不抓住它呢?


你们说:“我学业不好。”


人家说:“读书不好拿不到文凭就等于没出息。”


你们都在心里呐喊:“怎么办!”





朋友,别那么想了,


读书不好不代表一切,


读书不好,就往别的方向飞翔吧!


读书,只是东南西北的其中一个方向,




上帝创造我们,一定已经把机会放在我们身边的,

读书不好,其实学些手艺也是不错的,

再不然,当个推销员也依然能有出路的,

别小看他们,很多大企业家都是那么出身的。



成功,只是看你怎么把握机会,

只是看你怎么把机会转变为成功,

所以彷徨的人,飞翔吧!


往充满机会的天空飞去吧!


Jeffery,
2008年9月24日

爱,寻找不完美中的完美。。。

情况1:你说你喜欢她,她说她并不如你想象中的完美。

情况2:你们因为一些关于他的不完美吵到天翻地覆。

情况3:你觉得他不完美,并不适合当你的终生伴侣。

这些问题,相信也困扰不少情侣吧!



你们会在爱情这鸡蛋里挑骨头吗?

爱情刚开始时是不是很甜蜜,很有feel?

日子久了,是不是常常觉得被骗了?

你发觉,你的他并不完美?



其实爱情并不只是feel,别被feel这个东西蒙骗了。

Feel,只是促使爱情的滋长。

Feel,并不是永远的。

Feel,会随着鸡蛋里找到的骨头消失。



世界上并没有完美的人,

每一个人都是不完美的,

当你对他不够深入了解时,

看到的他是完美的,

他真的那么完美吗?

错!你只是还没看清楚他的不完美。



既然爱情中没有完美的情人,

我们该怎么办呢?

以我的看法,

爱,是寻找不完美中的完美。



不完美中的完美?

其实每一个人都是不完美的,

外貌,性格,身份,地位,等等。。。

不同的不完美,会出现在不同人身上。



所以,爱是包容,爱是谅解,爱是互相沟通。

别让爱情因为feel葬身在他的不完美。

你觉得他不完美,

并不见得你是完美的,

大家都有自己的缺点。


重点是,你们怎样解决这些不完美。

良性的沟通能让爱情升华。

切记!别勉强对方!


换个角度,

你发觉你自己不完美,

觉得他不该爱你。

如果你那么想,你就大错特错了!


其实当他准备爱你时,

他就准备接受你的不完美了,

你的不完美,

并不能剥夺被爱的资格。



所以,

了解爱情的真谛,

别自卑,

勇敢去爱吧!



“爱,寻找不完美中的完美。。。”Jeffery'08


(以上纯属个人爱情观,旨在与大众分享,大家可以在comment跟我聊。不然也可以用右边的聊天室和我分享哦!)

Great thoughts to ponder about...

There was a blind girl who hated herself because she was blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He was always there for her.

She told her boyfriend, 'If I could only see the world, I will marry you.'

One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her. When the bandages came off, she was able to see everything, including her boyfriend. He asked her,'Now that you can see the world, will you marry me?'

The girl looked at her boyfriend and saw that he was blind. The sight of his closed eyelids shocked her. She hadn't expected that. The thought of looking at them the rest of her life
led her to refuse to marry him.

Her boyfriend left in tears and days later wrote a note to her saying: 'Take good care of your eyes, my dear, for before they were yours, they were mine.'

This is how the human brain often works when our status changes.

Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painful situations.


Life Is a Gift

Today

Before you say an unkind word - Think of someone who can't speak.

Before you complain about the taste of your food - Think of someone who has nothing to eat.

Before you complain about your husband or wife - Think of someone who's crying out to GOD for a companion.


Today

Before you complain about life - Think of someone who went too early to heaven.
Before whining about the distance you drive - Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.
And when

you are tired and complain about your job - Think of the unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your job.

And when

depressing thoughts seem to get you down - Put a smile on your face and think: you're alive and still around.
I PRAY
THIS MOVES AROUND

This is a very meaningful email i get from Ms. Claire Lu. Thanks ya! It give me some thought.

M'sia 80's baby must read this!

We grew up watching Transformers,

Thundercats, Woody Woodpecker,
Chipmunks, Mickey Mouse, Jem, Mask,
Ninja Turtles, Voltron, Baja Hitam,

Ultraman n not forgettin POWER RANGERS
n BUGS BUNNY!!!and anderra yippa mice?

:), McGyver ?


had to brush our teeths during recess
at primary school? had to hold plastic
cups, line up with your classmates side
by side and start brushing our teeths
at some open area... or maybe near some
drain??


do you still remember that we had
'dentist' rooms where we had to have
our
teeths check?

not to forget our 'program minum susu'
in primary school.. everybody is

suppose
to buy like cartons of milk that costed
30 cents.. and you would see everyone
drinking it everyday...its d UHT
milk...

the teachers who would want to punish
us must use yellow rulers to hit us on
our palms?? 1 metre length..


that a bowl of mihun soup or some soup
only costed 50 cents at the school
canteen...

went to some sundry shop near the
school
or to the 'roti' man waiting outside
our
schools so that we can buy junk food
like chickedees, mamee, ding dang with
some toys in it, 'Ti Kam', ice-cream
and
we would play games like monopoly, uno,
old maid, and all other card games like
that...

another fun time would be during
Pendidikan Jasmani. the boys would
play football while the girls would
play netball... and it would be like we
were playing in the world cup...

but of course. the best would be main
guli, batu seremban, bottlecaps, ice-
cream sticks, 'Pepsi Cola
one-two-three', Cops and Robbers, main
kejar-kejar duduk,getah... and for the
not so active, those kind of 'book
games' where we would use buku latihan
to draw and ask our friends to play...

do you remember the ice-cream tubes
which are actually ice and colouring
that are sold for 10 to 20 cents.. the
colourful ones.. where you usually bite
off the top to glup it down.orange
tastes b best..(pop-ice)

what about days when we felt like doing
naughty things such as folding papers
so small to make 'lastik' amd shoot
each other... how about throwing
chalks??

back then, micheal jackson was just
turning white.. and still had albums
coming out.. compared to CD's, we were
listening to tapes that sold for RM9.90
...


in computer class, we were still using
black and white computer moniters..
played 'Atari'... maybe SEGA or
NINTENDO..


well, are we all getting older or what?

1) if you understand what you have read
and you are smiling...

2) we have friends from school that are
already married...

3) we shake our heads everytime we
see high school students fussing about
their handphones in school..

4) we don't hang on phone with our
friends for hours a day talking about
nothing...

5) when we meet back with our friends
from time to time, we feel excited and
happy talking about old times, the
funny 'adventures' or stories that we
experienced as a kid..

6) last but not least, that when you
read this, you would think of all the
happy & sad memories that you have
experienced when you were still a kid
and would think of forwarding this to
your old friends that you have known
since forever... i'm sure they would
have a huge smile on their face after
reading this.....

p.s: if u feel u're one of them who
experinced this, repost this to share
it
wif ur frens... ;)


How many marks you think you deserved?

2day, my tutor Ms Karen ask all of us in the class,

How many marks you think you deserved in the presentation?

All of us gives different marks.

Some think themself deserved 15, some say 13, some say 12, some say 11, my classrep say 11.5, and some are so humble to say they only deserve 10.

This shows different level of confidence among ourself.

Me? i rate myself 10 only.

Why?

1st, i think i am unprepare in the presentation as in fail to understand clearly everything before presenting my answer.

2nd, i fail to present confidently. cause i fail to present what i plan to talk. ==

confidence plays a big role when comes to presentation.

After all of us tell our lecturer how many marks we deserved, Ms Karen start telling us the marks she give to us for the presentation and asking us why you think you deserved the marks you mention.

All of sudden, Ms Karen ask me am i sure i only deserve 10? While in shock mode, she tell me that i get 14. lol...

Im humble? i thought everyone say i ego. lol

hmm.. bt to be honest, i am lack of confident. i always feel so scare. and i do feel i did not do mybest in this presentation. i could do better if i were me last time.

hmm... jz a piece of crap 2day. sorry my readers.


But this question inspire me... and i would like to ask everyone,

how many marks you think you deserved?

超有意义的短篇漫画。。。Part 2 / 4 - 驾车

这就是part 2啦,上一篇-叉烧饭 还好看吧?

在这一篇,作者以驾车来道出人生道理。。。

请大家慢慢领悟这简单的一篇漫画吧!




正如作者所说,我们在看到别人幸福时,总是忘了自己也是在幸福之中。俗语说,身在福中不知福。看来大家都会赞同吧!
大家能跟我分享意见的哦!

超有意义的短篇漫画。。。Part 1 / 4

这篇漫画总共有四个。

暂时还不知谁是作者。

Phoebe以电邮转寄给我的。

作者的画工虽然普通,但却带出了非凡的意义。


在这篇漫画里,

作者以普通的一碟叉烧饭,

带出不一样的道理。

大家慢慢领悟个中奥妙吧!












正如漫画里说,人生要勇于尝试。跌倒了?不就爬起来咯!永远别畏惧失败这两个字。

愿大家有个美好的人生!加油!